Dating widower support group
The WOWs and GOWs face many of the same complexities: unaccepting in-laws, social media drama, and a constant feeling that they’re being measured against the deified first wife (some call it the Rebecca Syndrome, after the Daphne du Maurier novel of that name).
These are women who know what it’s like to experience profound love with a man who may also—maybe even always—love another woman.
You’ll see widowers who date months or even weeks after their wife dies.
It’s like they go out there and say, ‘Oh, you’re pretty. ’ They end up getting into relationships they aren’t ready for.” Keogh shares this insight not just from talking to thousands of women over email and through the private Facebook group he runs, Dating a Widower, but also from personal experience.
He was 26 when his first wife took her own life while she was seven months pregnant.
“I started dating five months after she died,” Keogh says.