Dating a young person
Women who feel otherwise are the reason we get paid 89 cents to their dollar.But I realize that I’m a young(ish) woman, and biology is a factor, sure.When you completely remove personality and individual experience from the equation and rely exclusively on stuff like "young," "blue eyes," and "no glasses," you end up with Robert, that weirdo in the beret.Forget about other people, money, and the looming specter of death. If we start writing people off based on this completely arbitrary Z-factor, we’re really going to end up forcing a lot of conversation with a lot of boring, age-appropriate dullards.And on the other hand, unless you’re going out with somebody she’s young, I don’t think it’s cause for judgment.
The only problem I’ve had with dating outside of my age range is when the other person has been too aware of it.
I don’t have to tell you that the only people who get to decide whether you’re enjoying each other as people are you and your dinner companion.
Given the opportunity, your friends and strangers will judge you for being out with somebody who is too fat, too thin, to short, too Asian, too a stripper, whatever.
But if you’re not into someone because of the arbitrary time in which their parents created them—well, more tasty imperfect flesh for the rest of us.
Admittedly, I prefer older guys, only because they tend to be fully fused, like a human skull.
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A lot of us have found ourselves attracted to somebody younger or older, and have been reluctant to act on it because of some perceived weirdness or taboo.